"Judgment Day" (THE CIVIL WAR)

Gossip is an essential part of any social interaction group. It was discussed heavily in the book I mentioned a few entries back, "Urban Tribes" by Ethan Watters, as a way to keep group members informed about others who are not able to spend one-on-one time with each other. In the world of volleyball, it's gossip that propels not only among team members but also between teams. In open play, from week to week the teams can comprise different personalities and eventually produce a lot of "talk" when they are off the court. At open play, the rule is to play two games and then sit out one game during the night so it leaves a bit of time to sit around snack and "talk." It is during these times where people are updated on their life situations, work opportunities, relationships, or just funny stories. Gossip is spread during this time and it may be good or really bad. It's just part of social situations, and how the group reacts to the gossip makes for some wonderful or uncomfortable situations. I'm completely guilty of adding to the "talk" and may mention a few things about people, but I would never say anything to damage anyone personally. Or do I? No, really I don't. I just hope that someone would stop me before anything went too far in damaging someone's reputation. This is such a random post but it's a thought I've had before around the volleyball court.

Oh, also I went to watch NYU men's team last night and it was an interesting game. They did not play up to the level that I've seen them play before and I really thought they were going to lose the match. I had to leave during the third game and they were down 1-2 when I left. So I really expected them to not win because their play was not their best. But surprisingly when I checked their score today they made a big comeback and beat the opponent. Never say never in volleyball, there's always a chance for a comeback. God, I love this game, too bad I missed watching that comeback because what I saw before I left was not very watchable.