"Ya Got Trouble" (THE MUSIC MAN)
Disappointment and frustration come with any sport, and volleyball is no different. In the field of competition, there are winners and losers, and it's the reaction to the outcome that shows a player's true character. Of course, everybody wants to win, but, hey, it's not always going to happen. I used to get so mad at myself when I made errors especially if it lead to the team's loss in the game. I would completely shut my team members out, I would retreat into my own world. That got old really fast, and that's when I learned about the mental aspect of the game. Picture it--once a point is over, it's over-get over it-move on and get ready for the next point. There's no point in looking back at a point you've already lost (or won). It's good to go back and review that point, but only after the game is over. But during a game, you must be ready for the point happening at the present time. Your team is depending on you. You can't let a mistake on a previous point affect you. I know it's easier said than done for some people, but it's part of the psychological realm of a game.
I'm always amazed at some players who have mastered this psychological aspect of the game. They are the ones who lead the team and set an example. Even after an error, they are able to make the team feel assured and ready for the next point. One of those players that I hope
to be more like is Brian "Go-Go." He moved away back in September but he was not only a great player on the court but also a wonderful friend. His skills on the court were amazing but he was also a teacher and supporter, completely cheering on the team even when the score was bleak. A few friends were discussing the other day how much we miss his presence in New York and that his visit in December was way too short. But he is building a new life somewhere out West and we wish him all the best. He represented so much of how a volleyball player should be, not arrogant about his skills but not afraid to show them, but also to be a team player who builds the morale of the team even in the face of looming defeat or joyous win. Here's to you Go-Go!!!!
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